Often times, I see when men are new to conscious intimacy and neo-tantra, and learn about polarity and the importance of presence when relating to the feminine, that they fall into postured presence, because they haven't been taught and initiated well into what true presence really is. I see this visibly happening. A good place to observe this is in tantra spaces and workshops. The men sitting in a meditation seat motionless in front of the women, because they picked up the i

Personally, I started my spiritual seeking because I got fascinated with the idea of enlightenment and transcendence. I was in such a vulnerable state at the time when I started seeking, with so much trauma to still heal, so much daily suffering. And so when I first heard of the possibility to transcend my pain and go beyond the human condition, it quickly became my obsession. I longed for the idea of invulnerability. Of ease. Of simply being happy. To never feel hurt again,

If you’ve been near me the last year, or followed me here, you might have understood that I am quite passionate about Black Lotus Yoga. What is Black Lotus Yoga? Black Lotus Yoga is a new system of Vinyasa (in simple terms: synchronized movement with breath), that works with many of the same principles of Ashtanga. Black Lotus provides set sequences to follow, with increasing difficulty, to be practiced 6 days a week, either alone or in a group (Mysore style - everyone doing